“To say that working with Aitabé is paradigm shifting would be an understatement: it’s paradigm exploding!

This work opens realms of connection, healing, and truth that I’ve never imagined I could access.” - Jessica Simkovic

Aitabé Fornés, M.Ed.

Are you facing any of these challenges in your life?

  • You desire work that is satisfying and aligned with your inner purpose, but getting there is unclear.

  • You're having difficulty in your personal relationships, but can't quite tell if the problem is them - or you.

  • You've been on a personal growth path for a while, but you are encountering persistent challenges that you can't resolve on your own.

These are opportunities, not obstacles.

Here's what I have come to understand as the root cause of these issues and why so many of us share these same difficulties:

Each begins as a message from your heart saying, "Pay attention. Listen to me. Follow me."

That message is a gift. It is your inner guidance system.

So why does this gift turn into a challenge?

Because your heart is met by another part of you - a part that replays unconscious patterns that can keep you stuck.

Healing comes when you can release the grip the pattern has on you and access the freedom you're looking for.

This is where I help.

As a trained Family and Systemic Constellations Facilitator, I listen with skill and empathic attention to help you identify the core pattern behind your situation and support you to heal and integrate this pattern.

This work is profound and effective. Some clients experience a complete resolution of their initial concern after just 1-2 sessions, others find that our work together over time supports them to transform their challenges into a life of joy and purpose.

"Aitabé is a loving guide on the journey into your inner wild unknowns.

She is adept, capable, kind, and familiar with the territory of what is beyond the five sense perceptions. She has a gift for befriending all of the aspects of a system.

If you are someone who is committed to personal and collective evolution, Bé is completely dedicated to bringing forth your most radiant desire." -Sonya Joy Key, Wild Appetites Chef & Educator

“Aitabé sees into you. Her ability as a healer is profound, personal, and so incredibly intimate as her entire being witnesses in empathy…she uses the field and through her embodiment, seems to transcend it.” - Anayza Stewart, Into SoulWisdom

“Aitabé's facilitation of systemic constellations have provided incredible insights. I had hit a wall in thinking about new strategies and approaches for a challenge I was facing. In the course of 30 minutes I was able to “see” patterns, issues and avenues that I would never have understood on my own.” Madeline Typadis-Snow

Family and Systemic Constellation Coaching with Aitabé is a brief, focused coaching process that brings very powerful shifts in a short time.

Looking for support right now?

If you feel out of alignment in your work, relationships, or spiritual unfoldment and you are ready to meet with me right away, see below for my services or CLICK HERE to make an appointment.

In your session, you will share your challenges and intentions and I will listen into your issue to illuminate the dynamics that have you stuck. For some clients, a single session is enough to create the shifts they're looking for. For other clients, the initial session is the beginning of a longer-term coaching relationship.

Want to learn more about the Family and Systemic Constellation process or about working with me?

If you are exploring coaching and want to figure out if working with me is right for you, I encourage you to come to a group session to learn more about Family and Systemic Constellations with Aitabé. CLICK HERE to view the current schedule.

"Aitabé is a creative visionary.

She sees patterns that allow her to structure constellations that are easy to use, yet multilayered and deeply healing. She can witness what others may shy from, whether it is the shadow side in a constellation, or in our culture and community. She allows truth at a deep level which creates space for amazing healing and light."

~Linda Vishala Baker, supportingsystems.org

"I have experienced such a depth of listening, on multiple dimensions, in sessions with Aitabé.

Her support has deepened the connection with myself, my ancestors and guides. Most recently, she facilitated a process whereby we made contact with my core trauma, core strategy, core self and essence and through her empathic skills and capacity to uncover ancestral stories, the process brought me into connection with and remembering of my resources as well as deeper compassion for my core trauma and strategy.

If you're seeking guidance and support in connecting with your own knowing of your core self and your own essence to support further integration of your gifts, I highly recommend working with Aitabé."

~Kat Gibson, Lady Gaia

"The space Aitabé holds is invaluable.

She weaves together Ancestral connection and personal healing within the context of social justice. Bé has a gentle, clear, and direct communication style. Her intuition and empathic skills contribute a nuanced listening and guidance which allows the group to safely move through deep layers. I experience truths emerging and transformations happening in Bé's groups and I’m so grateful for all I’ve received from her and had the honor to witness. "

-Taina Lyons, Emerge Holistic Therapy

"I have felt the power of her work on a personal level and witnessed its power to strengthen community.

Aitabé is a wonderful friend and colleague of mine and has been a welcomed guest teacher at my various dance events. I'm always excited to take Bé's classes and experience the way she integrates movement and creativity with her transformative constellation work."

- Moti Zemelman, Contact Improvisation Dance Teacher

Decision Clarity

Understand your situation from a new perspective and find your path forward.

Are you having difficulty making a decision? Whether it seems small or potentially life-altering, being stuck making a decision means that there's something else you're not seeing. I can help.

I specialize in illuminating hidden dynamics. I do this by listening with skilled attention and empathic sensing. My work is not to give advice; rather, we work very precisely as I ask questions and listen, create a map (a constellation) of your situation, and then support you to sense into your own guidance to identify the direction forward.

Decision Clarity Session

You will receive:

  • An online, 60 minute private session with Aitabé.

  • A PDF of the visual image or map of your situation.

  • An audio or video recording of your session.

Cost: $150 USD

Relationship Clarity

Relationships invite us into intimacy and vulnerability so our hearts can open to great joy.

However, this also means that all of the old patterns will get activated in our relationships. This is why they are so valuable for personal and spiritual growth, and are mirrors of our inner landscape.

I specialize in illuminating hidden dynamics. I do this by listening with skilled attention and empathic sensing. My work is not to give advice; rather, we work very precisely as I listen and ask questions, create a map (a constellation) of your situation, and then support you to sense into your own guidance to identify the direction forward.

Relationship Clarity Sessions are designed to help you understand the core dynamics at play in your relationship right now.

Relationship Clarity Session

You will receive:

  • An online 2 hour private session with Aitabé.

  • A PDF of the visual image or map of your situation.

  • An audio or video recording of your session.

Cost: $225 USD for an individual; $300 for a couple.

Healing Clarity

Healing transforms your challenges into a life-force energy.

Sadness, depression, or low energy; anger or rage; cycles of up and down: these are all indications of patterns that are operating in you. These patterns are often familial and ancestral; they can also be from difficult or traumatic experiences that happened to you as a child or adult. I can help you. There IS a path to joy!

I specialize in illuminating hidden dynamics. I do this by listening with skilled attention and empathic sensing. My work is not to give advice; rather, we work very precisely as I listen and ask questions, create a map (a constellation) of your situation, and then support you to sense into your own guidance to identify the direction forward.

Healing Clarity Sessions are very specific to your specific situation and needs. Most clients experience a palpable inner shift after their session.

Healing Clarity Session

You will receive:

  • An online, approx. 2 hour private session with Aitabé.

  • A PDF of the visual image or map of your situation.

  • An audio or video recording of your session.

Cost: $225 USD

Upcoming Group Workshops

About Aitabé Fornés, MEd.

Family and Systemic Constellations Facilitator and Trainer

Founder of Green River Family Constellations


I was introduced to Family and Systemic Constellations in 2011. At the time, I was focused on a painful family relationship that I assumed would never change. I had developed a strategy to either "manage" or avoid the relationship.

Instead, after one session in particular, I experienced such a significant breakthrough that the relationship changed permanently and has continued to grow in love over the years.

This experience altered the course of my life. Within the year, I felt called to leave my teaching career to study and facilitate Family and Systemic Constellations. That was 10 years ago. In that time, I have become a skilled and respected facilitator with an international audience.

Beyond the healing and resourcing I continue to receive through this work, it has given me a direct experience of the world beyond the ordinary. This has expanded my perception and given me the ability to map the underlying patterns that give rise to what we experience in the world.

Early on, I was so enthusiastic that I wanted to share it with everyone! And, honestly, I still do.

But I came to understand two important areas of resistance:

First, not everyone is ready for big change - and that's fine! If this is you, be gentle on yourself. As one of my teachers shared with me, this form of resistance is the way the body prepares for big change. When the time comes, you'll know.

The second resistance is related to trauma - personal or ancestral. In the complexity of trauma, our resistance is an unconscious memory of the fear and pain of the original trauma. To you I say: it is safe. You are safe. I am an experienced and compassionate coach with the skill and sensitivity to support you on your journey.

If you feel the nudge to work with me, I encourage you to reach out. You can join an upcoming workshop and just observe to see what the experience is like, or make an appointment for a private session.

~Aitabé (You can call me Bé, Bay, for short)