Your relationship issues serve a sacred purpose.
Photo by Aura Broida
1. Joyful Expansion
Your heart feels open and expansive. You are present and grounded. You feel your vibrant life force energy is fully available to create and play and delight in the joy of life!
This is what I want for myself, and it’s what I want for you.
I know that our ability to access and rest in this state is the foundation to everything else we want to create and experience in this lifetime.
I also know how challenging it can be to integrate expansive states like these into our day-to-day lives. I believe that the joyful expanse not just a temporary state experience, but is in fact a taste of the Greater Reality that we are being called to stabilize into our lived experience.
However, in my own life, such stability has eluded me. I have found myself oscillating between expansive and contracted states (hello again, consensus reality). So I have directed the light of my attention to the question: What else do I need to do to stabilize this state within me?
And the answer I’ve found is surprisingly close to home: the tender spot of relationship issues.
2. Relationships
What does joyful expansion have to do with relationships?
Well, one answer could be that a good relationship creates a state of joyful expansion.
But that’s not my answer.
Yes, it is absolutely true that there is a sweet bliss to romantic love, or as a parent to the depth of love that opens up between us and our children. But in order to be able to bring Joyful, Expansive, Divine Love down into our bodies and our lived experience, we have to descend first.
We need to illuminate our shadows, blindspots, and projections, and nothing does this as well as our intimate relationships.
Our relationships are a mirror of our inner selves. But we need to learn how to clearly perceive what they are showing us so we can use that information for our personal and shared growth and liberation.
3. Solar Power for Your Life Force Energy (Eros)
I’ll be honest: this is vulnerable work. You are being asked to let go of your illusions. Your ego will want to fight you (or your partner, or me) for taking this on. You will see sides of yourself you probably won’t like and will feel ashamed of. That’s why this work is so hard to do - even as it is ESSENTIAL. It really is key to liberating your life force energy.
Your illusions are draining your life force and they are keeping you from the life your heart is calling you towards.
Here’s the thing: I have discovered that in doing my work - of seeing how my projections and blindspots have been shaping how I interpret and interact with my most intimate relations - it releases my loved ones from the shitty dynamics we were stuck in.
AND as I call back and integrate my projected aspects, I have discovered that it liberates my eros/life-force energy to circulate within me so it can be directed towards the life I want to create, rather than being used to run old programs.
It feels simple and almost mechanical (or metaphysical): unplug the old programming that is extracting your energy so you can plug yourself back into the Greater Reality.
4. Personal and Collective Evolution Both Require The Same Move.
That move - of unplugging the old programming to plug into Greater Reality - is one that we must do on the collective level as well.
But in order for that move to be successful, your nervous system will need to know and trust that it will survive after being unplugged from the old personal program.
What you will discover is that you don’t just survive, you finally THRIVE!
When we have embodied that individually, it will be easier to unplug from the collective systems of oppression and extraction that are currently running our consensus reality.
An Invitation
If you want:
To experience yourself and your relations with luminous clarity, rather than through the distortions of your shadows, projections, and blindspots
To unplug from programming that has been extracting your energy so you can tap directly into Source
To have practices that allow you to stabilize these states into your daily reality
To walk this journey with community and in a lovingly held container
You are invited to Relationships as a Sacred Mirror
The process will use Constellation Work + SenseThinking to:
Identify your core patterns + how they are operating in your specific relationships
Identify exactly how your shadows/projections/blindspots are casting their image onto your relationships.
Integrate your projections and attend to your inner longings with love, compassion, and Divine Grace.
Stabilize this movement through simple daily practices that strengthen your direct connect with Source.
This work has psychological aspects, but ultimately is spiritual in nature. You must be comfortable with or open to connecting with Divinity / God / Source / Mystery / Universe / Nature, etc. - the language does not matter. What is important is that you are open to the Field of Unconditional Love.
Reach out to me if you have questions. If you’ve read this far, this is probably for you!
~Aitabé
Details:
Relationships as a Sacred Mirror
One Private 1:1 Session with Aitabé
plus three group sessions
The group sessions will meet on Monday May 11, May 25, and Jun 8
This offering includes a private 1:1 session so we can take a deep dive into your relationship and projection dynamics.
We will meet either Monday mornings or afternoons, depending on when most people can attend.
Morning: 7am - 9am PT/ 10am - 12pm ET (preferred)
OR Afternoon: 1pm - 3pm PT/ 4pm - 6pm ET (if most can attend)
Exchange: $700 USD suggested, $400 USD minimum. Payment plans available.
TO REGISTER: EMAIL Aitabé hello@greenriverfc.com
when you email me, please tell me if one of the times DOES NOT work for your schedule.
